Ole
We’ve had our cat Ole (pronounced Oh-Lee) for 14 years… he was rescued by one of our friends, her son sat in the snow in a tshirt and shorts for a couple of hours try to coax Ole to come to him… Our friend gave Ole to us cause she knew we were looking for a cat. We think Ole was abused by adults and children… he wouldn’t even come near me when we first got him. But over the last 14 years he has become part of our family. We laugh when he sleeps in all sorts of crazy positions on the couch, when he chases after absolutley nothing and then runs into the refrigerator. We laugh when I gently squeeze his tail and then he turns around suddenly just like The Cowardly Lion in The Wizard of Oz but brushes against my hand just before I squeeze the tail again. This week our vet told us Ole has cancer… and he has anywhere from a few weeks to a few months left… I don’t know how to deal with losing him… I don’t really have a good, clear memory of when he wasn’t in our house… I have Mark’s book… I actually bought a signed copy off the website… but I just can’t bring myself to read it yet. I don’t want to lose Ole… he is the first cat we’ve ever had for this long we’ve given cats away or they ran away… but Ole has been with us for 14 years… he is a part of the family… and we’re going to lose him… How do I get through this? How do I make it through? How do I go on after he’s gone? I don’t know that I can… I can’t stop thinking about him and about how much pain he is going to start going through and I don’t want him to suffer but I also can’t think of what it will be like to lose him. I don’t know how to get through this…
Robbie from TX