When I was 7 years old, my mother decided we had to give away our Doberman Pincher. Mom was pregnant and single. The Doberman was a great dog, but very hyper. We gave the dog to a friend of Mom’s who lived on a farm. The dog was very happy. I, on the other hand, was very sad. So, Mom told me that when I turned 12 I would be able to get another dog. Her reasoning was that my sister would be 5, I would be responsible, and perhaps I would even forget. I did not forget and Goldie, a Golden Retriever, was born on May 4, two days before my birthday. We got Goldie a few weeks later, and she and I immediately became best friends. She slept in my room; I walked her many times a day; I taught her tricks; and I trained her for dog shows. After our first dog show, I was told that Goldie did not have the physical attributes needed to be considered show-quality. I was devastated, and almost punched the judge who gave his (what I later learned was accurate) opinion on my wonderful dog.
However, a friend of mine encouraged me to keep working with Goldie and compete in Junior Showmanship events, where I would be judged on my ability to handle my dog. We were great together. We went all around the South (TX, LA, Mississippi) competing, and winning. The best was at a major event in Houston. Goldie and I had just finished our routine and were “set” for the judge to come by to look at how I had positioned my dog, look at her teeth, etc. Interestingly, after the judge came by, Goldie looked back at me – something she had never done and was not supposed to do. I snapped my fingers and pointed at Goldie, signaling my displeasure and telling her to turn around. She did not obey, and in fact looked at her left back leg (I was on her right side). I looked down the line, and the judge had moved each dog’s left hind leg, and no one had noticed – except Goldie. I corrected the problem, and Goldie (and I) won the show. A few years later, I went off to college and Goldie could not come with me as I was staying in a dorm. I went home often and each time Goldie looked older and older. Every time I left, I told her “if I don’t see you again, know I love you and that you have been a great dog.” A few years ago was the last time I saw her. Goldie got older, had a cancerous growth in her mouth and could not see. She had hip dysplasia as well (why the judge said she would never be show-quality). My Mom called one morning to let me know she had put Goldie down. I love that dog.
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