Alex & TJ
Mark, wanted to thank you for writing the book. It was a x-mas present from my brother who is a big fan of your show. I’ve struggled with the events that led up to the end of my dear TJ’s life on New Year’s Eve 2006, wondering if we had done the right thing by our “big golden boy.” My bro thought it was something I might enjoy. He was right…if by “enjoy” he meant cry like a baby for hours. Well, anyways, here’s my story.
TJ came into our lives in June of 2006. We already had Alex, our 3-year-old golden, who needed a friend/brother/sister as both my wife and I worked long hours. Perusing petfinder.com one afternoon I came across a picture of a beautiful golden retriever at the Media, PA ASPCA. After showing my wife the picture and getting her permission, I inquired with the ASPCA about the status of “TJ”. They said there were some leads on his original owner and they had to follow-up before he could be placed. We called back the next 3 days until we were told on Friday that the following Monday he would be up for adoption. Monday rolled around and Alex and I drove to the ASPCA. We arrived at the ASPCA by 7:30, they didn’t open until 9. By the time 9 rolled around there were 10 people in line for “TJ”. I was the first and got first shot at him and he was ours (the staff were so impressed about how organized my files were for Alex they circumvented some of the usual procedures)…Don’t all dog owners have their dog files organized?
He was such a sweet dog. He was also very big, very unkempt, and very sick. He had picked up Kennel Cough at the ASPCA. TJ became acquainted with the vet early on in our relationship. From skin rashes to ear infections, TJ was a great sport while we went about getting him in tip top shape. The vet estimated him at about 4-6 years old. What a beautiful dog he was. He and Alex complimented each other amazingly. Did I mention TJ was a big dog? About 95 lbs of pure muscle. This dog was built to work. We had purchased a flexy leash for a 120lb dog. TJ pulled right through the lock on the leash and broke it when he decided that he had to have that squirrel. I’m a big guy, and walking him was more than a chore, but I loved every minute of it/him. People would stop my wife and I constantly to comment on our two golden boys. I actually started to call them “dos goldens”, then the “two retards” (such a funny pair of idiots they were), then naturally I shortened it to “dos retardos.” (more…)